It’s Okay to Make Mistakes—They Help You Grow
For the longest time, I thought I had to be perfect. I had my guard up constantly, believing that making mistakes or trusting the wrong people meant I was weak. But here’s the truth: vulnerability is not a weakness—it’s a strength. And more importantly, it’s okay to make mistakes.
When we allow ourselves to experience life fully, we open ourselves up to both joy and pain. And while getting hurt is never easy, those experiences shape us, make us stronger, and give us wisdom.
It’s Okay Not to Have All the Answers
I used to believe I had to know everything. I thought I could avoid pain by being hyper-aware, by predicting every possible outcome. But the reality is that we are not meant to have all the answers. Life is about learning, evolving, and sometimes, making mistakes.
If you’ve ever found yourself regretting a decision, beating yourself up for trusting the wrong person, or feeling like you should have “known better,” I want to remind you: you didn’t know better then, but you do now—and that’s what matters. Growth comes from those experiences, and it’s okay to make mistakes along the way. If you’re struggling with self-forgiveness, this video by Tiffany TV dives into how to forgive yourself and own your mistakes.
The Beauty of Taking Risks
One of the hardest lessons I learned was that to truly live, we have to take risks. Yes, there’s always a chance things won’t go as planned. A friendship might not work out. A situation might not go in your favour. But there’s also a chance that things will turn out beautifully.
If we live our lives constantly trying to avoid pain, we also end up avoiding joy. We miss out on meaningful connections, personal growth, and life-changing experiences. It’s okay to make mistakes because mistakes mean you’re taking action, putting yourself out there, and growing in the process.
Setting Boundaries While Embracing Mistakes
Being vulnerable doesn’t mean you should let people walk all over you. Boundaries are essential. If someone proves they can’t be trusted, believe them. If someone takes advantage of your kindness, adjust your approach. But don’t let those experiences harden you or make you afraid to be open again.
Being vulnerable is about finding the balance—allowing yourself to be open while also protecting your energy. It’s okay to make mistakes as you figure out where that balance lies.
Final Thoughts: Mistakes Are Part of the Journey
To every girl out there who has ever felt like she needed to be perfect, who has been afraid to make mistakes, or who has struggled with trusting people—you are not alone. Being vulnerable is not a flaw. It’s a strength.
Mistakes don’t define you. They teach you. And as long as you keep learning, growing, and moving forward, you are exactly where you need to be. So, take risks, embrace vulnerability, and remember—it’s okay to make mistakes.
For more inspiration, read Girl Get Up and Love Yourself—a reminder that your worth isn’t tied to your mistakes.